Let it be planned,intended and wanted

Do u heard about it before?planned,intended n wanted?I guess a lot of us heard about it before...well,Its about a talk regarding pregnancy by Dr Harlina..I love her words...its indeed true..let it be planned,intended and wanted so that u could well prepared regarding ur pregnancy,ur child,ur life and family..not to say the accidental pregnancy is bad but better if its well planned aite?life nowadays is no longer beautiful.easier like before..there are a lot of obstacles out there..if u yourself cant handle it..how do u expect to handle if the family members increasing without well management in term of financial,time,energy etc etc.

As for me,I really want a second baby..pity my boy that he has no playmate but do I have enough time to take care of em (for now I dun think so)..I have a lot of commitment..still struggling hard with my study,my job,my research..the list goes on..and im still blaming myself for not having enough time to my first child as well...everyday after work,he always clingy to us..seeking our attention..sometimes throwing out tantrums when both of us busy studying..so each of us have to take turn in between study and paying attention to him..we even make a rules to bring him to playground almost everyday so that he could play happily...and feel our love towards him never reduce..we make a rules of no phone in front of our son..and to give as much attention as we could to him...Im happy atleast I have a supportive and caring,lovely husband that knows his part,knows his responsibilities too...thank u dear husband(thank u for changed a lot in past few months)..

So regarding second child(gonna be third pregnancy coz i had miscarriage before)..we did make a discussion regarding this...well lets pray for the best...maybe next year after everything cool down?...but must plan the due date not going to fall down exactly or around my final exam end of next year..haruuu beb...well,We just make a planning and Allah is always the greatest planner...

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